tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5041527363919636264.post5266069179447715958..comments2023-05-07T03:57:12.754-07:00Comments on Spirited Reflections: Featured Writer: George Pappas Author of "Monogamy Sucks"Ranee Dillonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08673357492374295171noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5041527363919636264.post-27395195964705470942010-12-10T01:25:48.060-08:002010-12-10T01:25:48.060-08:00You may consider yourself as more of a novelist, b...You may consider yourself as more of a novelist, but your poetry is mesmerizing. I very much enjoy reading your poems on twitter and look forward to reading "Monogamy Sucks".haiku love songshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07399389464545429355noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5041527363919636264.post-7371340966870383622010-12-04T15:07:07.487-08:002010-12-04T15:07:07.487-08:00Hi Dan,
Thanks for your comment.
I do agree that s...Hi Dan,<br />Thanks for your comment.<br />I do agree that swinging is truly a woman's world. I discovered this in the research for my book "Monogamy Sucks."<br />Women called the shots in all instances. Swinging is truly liberating for both women and men.<br /><br />If you read my novel "Monogamy Sucks," you will meet a female swinger near the close of the novel, who represents the strong women I encountered. <br /><br />Thanks again for sharing your interesting and intriguing story about you and your wife's fulfilling life as a swinging couple. <br /><br />George Pappas<br />Author of novel Monogamy Sucks<br />www.monogamysucks.wordpress.comGeorge Pappashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17140694195936248490noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5041527363919636264.post-22005827815848885812010-12-03T16:39:33.253-08:002010-12-03T16:39:33.253-08:00The real key to a swinging lifestye for a couple i...The real key to a swinging lifestye for a couple is the the total commitment of both the husband and the wife. When we first entertained the thought of swinging, I considered it a dream come true--I could have sex with lots of other women and my wife would accept that. What I did not realize, is that it wasn't just a matter of me and my sexual desires. It turned out that my wife was not only as excited as I was but was capable of a far deeper involvement than I ever dreamed. <br /><br />For one thing, women are capable are going on and on in sex and having multiple orgasms. Men have a momentary thrill, but women, they can go far beyond and outlast us.<br /><br />For another, women are great organizers. My wife and other swinging wives would get on the phone for hours and discuss this session and the next session and this event and the next event and who was invited and who was great and who was a bitch and who they wanted to have sex with next.<br /><br />Wow. I would come home from work and learn that next weekend we would be going to Key West or Key Largo or Ft. Lauderdale or -- and you'll believe this one -- to our neighbors across the street who where nudist, swingers and bi-sexual. Best weekend of my life!<br /><br />But here's the point. My wife and her circle of female friends and wives were totally committed to swinging--and it was they more than we, the husbands and boyfriends--that sustained the lifestyle. The failures, those that tried it and dropped out, were those where the women were not committed and in truth, were probably only doing it because they thought that that was what their husbands wanted.DanSpeershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11299187424775309522noreply@blogger.com